There is a repetitive question from readers and others who express a common dilemma. Many thank for writing about TrueLove and providing a way for every human being to find their life-long romantic partner. "However", they say, "where should I begin to look for them?"; and "Is there a way to narrow the search?".
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My response to them is somewhat the same - do not limit yourselves, remain open, feel your path and be patient. However, in this post, I want to explain more about some of the spiritual, yet very practical, aspects of TrueLove connection between human beings and offer some hints about the nature of your expected ONE.
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The average human being is trained to see himself (or herself) as one person in one world. If one was asked “who are you?”, one’s probable answer would be: “My name is X, I live in Y country, I am Z years old”, etc. The self that most of us know from birth is one, specific, and a certain human being.
The energy gestalt
However, this identity that we create for ourselves is partial. You are more than the self that you currently know. When an energy gestalt - let’s call that energy cluster by the familiar name “entity” – when the entity chooses to penetrate the physical dimension it breaks into parts the moment it touches the physical reality. I will not get into the reasons why such a thing happens and for now, suffice to say that the consciousness of the entity simply doesn’t match the vibration of earth and therefore it needs to split. That split creates different human-beings that inhabit the earth. Naturally, this partition serves a good purpose because it allows the entity to experience, at the same time, various lifestyles, cultures, places, world-views, and conditions and hence to enrich itself tremendously.
You are part of an entity, a “private” entity that is your source. You are one physical manifestation of an entity that has, as described, divided itself.
To make it clear and to leave no room for misunderstandings, I will emphasize that I am not talking about selves who reincarnate. The notion of reincarnation has been greatly twisted in itself and gravely misapprehended. What I am saying is that right now, in this life that you experience, there are other portions that belong to the "bigger" entity that is you. Let’s call those other selves – your counterparts.
Those counterparts live on earth right now, they live their own lives, going through their own issues and most probably are still unaware of your existence and the existence of all the other peers (counterparts). Thanks to the entity’s desire for variation it is most probable that your counterparts live different lives than you are. That is, they live in different countries, under different circumstances, at different ages and with different physical characters (including gender!). Actually, the chance that your counterpart is your old neighbor or your best friend from high-school is not high (though exists).
Although you and your counterparts have very few physical elements in common (if at all), there is still something that bonds all of you together which I will term as – “pond of consciousness”.
That essence connects all of you and is the motif that will familiarize each of you with the other. You and your counterparts, as part of one entity, may share the same vocation in this lifetime, may have the same tendencies regarding your passion and desires from which your paths in life are derived.
For example, you all may deal with the issue of power. Therefore, the self that you know can be a soldier in the army, another counterpart can be a victim in a conquered country, another is a woman who is physically abused, and another a teenager who leads a gang; or your “pond of consciousness” may guide you to explore the essence of the physical body. Therefore, one counterpart may be a doctor, the other a patient, you may work in the pharmaceutical industry another counterpart may be an Olympic athlete and the fifth can focus on the body through the use of abusive drugs.
Whatever that “pond” may be, there is a constant give-and-take relationship between the counterparts which influences your (and their) life. Now, it would be easy for you to realize that the closest connection that you can make with another human being is with someone who is your counterpart. Therefore, it is very likely that your TrueLover is a foreigner, perhaps from another religion/nation and culture. Since they explore the same issues like you do, only from a different perspective they are likely to generate, at first, a strong attraction on the physical level but at the same time create havoc and disturbance in your mind and heart. Therefore, you are advised to keep yourself open. Do not reject potential mates just because they do not belong to your ethnic group or religion. Seek opportunities to expand your world and to meet new people from new places. For that purpose, the Internet serves well those who walk the path of TrueLove.
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Further Elaboration about the nature of the Entity
Your soul, your entity, your higher-self, whatever you name that unique essence is actually a greater personage which is unable to fully manifest itself on earth. Therefore it sends off-shoots to inhibit the physical reality in a certain time frame (the 21st century for instance). You are one version of those off-shoots and you are in contact, consciously and/or unconsciously, with the other counterparts (who live in the same time zone). That way the grand personage is able to quickly, efficiently and intensely experience the physical reality.
Usually, each counterpart chooses to focus on a certain limited spectrum of the human experience. You, for example, may focus on the intellectual field (being a distinguished scholar for instance), another distant counterpart may focus on the physical skills (being a great athlete), and the others may cover the rest that are the spiritual and the emotional areas. It is not a coincidence that it is extremely rare to find in the history of man-kind a human who excelled in all domains. Nevertheless, that situation will change in the future as humans will learn to "bring down" their entire great-personage.
You are unique. The "you" that you know now and consciously recognize is NOT inferior to your greater personage nor to any of your counterparts. You all are completing one another and, as mentioned, in close relationship with each other (usually through dreams and impulses of creative imagination). When you choose to end your current physical life you then continue on your own as an independent free-consciousness. If your soul chooses to experience more of the physical reality it will create a new group of counterparts which "you" will not be one of them.
The physical life, therefore, that you experience now is unique and will never repeat itself. In those terms, "life is short", indeed. You and your counterparts form a close and intimate group, much as your family does. A big difference would be the level of closeness and relations. With your counterparts, intimacy is much stronger yet still commonly unexplored.
And lastly
Sharing a quote from "The Unknown reality", a Seth book. Discussing the concept of counterparts Seth states on page 543:
"People have written here asking about soul mates. In certain circles, this is the latest vogue. The idea is an old one; it is based upon the reality of counterparts and presents another version of the theory. But, again, it is treated with an almost pompous seriousness. Many of those who use the term do it to hide rather than to release their own joyful abilities. They spend time searching for their soul mates - but the search involves them in a pilgrimage for a kind of impossible communication with another, in which all division is lost, with the two then trying to join in a cementing oneness, suffocating all sense of play or creativity. You are not one part, or one half, of another soul, searching through the annals of time for your partner, undone until you are completed by your soul mate."
