Hello to a new day friends of steemit. Today I am writing to you because I was reviewing here about cps due to the situation I am in and I would like you to help me a bit with regards to recommendations about cps nowadays.
My story is the following, you can not imagine the pain I feel when writing this, I apologize but I really need help.
My daughter who today rests in peace had a daughter at her young age. From the beginning he always had the support of my husband and me. The relationship he had with the father of the girl since the beginning of her pregnancy was not the best. Due to this, at 7 months of pregnancy my daughter moved back to our house. As time passed I returned home with her husband, however my granddaughter shared much of the time with her grandfather and me. The fights between them increased, I did not know that my daughter's husband used psychoactive substances.
The worst of this is that in these fights where not only verbally assaulted but opted for the blows to my daughter stabbing her to death, this was a dawn under the effects of drugs and alcohol where my little granddaughter made presence of as his father murdered my daughter.
It is here where social services are present, without even caring about the pain that my family is going through, without respecting my grief and that of my husband. CPS goes to my home where my little granddaughter Pao is in my care since her father was placed under the orders of the law. Social Services has made 2 visits to my home, where a social worker exposes wanting to help with the welfare of my little granddaughter.
I know and everyone here knows what the intentions of these people are. They have insisted on the visits to only want to pass to examine if the girl is in an optimal environment and to do a series of interviews to see if we are suitable and loving people for Pao.
Now I would like to know, we are his grandparents we have loved since this little creature was born, when his mother decided to return with the girl's father beg him to stay in our home, my daughter was a good person, despite having his daughter at a young age finished college, she was a good daughter and a good mother alone who made decisions that cost her her life.
My little granddaughter witnessed the murder of her mother, imagine the consequences that this has caused, we have asked professionals to help us and we have given the best of us since she has been with us for her wellbeing. I told the social worker the first time it came that her help was not needed, the second time I repeated it but she insitio adding that next time, she would come to our home with the police. Besides the pain I feel for my daughter's loss, the guilt I feel for not being able to do anything for her, is killing me the fear that I have to come again and legally kidnap my little granddaughter and keep her away from us. I do not sleep at night I feel anguish and despair.
I wonder how they are capable of doing so much damage by separating so many families. I love my granddaughter. And another reason to feel so afraid, is that I was also a victim of this system in my childhood, I grew up in a children's shelter, they call themselves protectors of minors and this is one of the most difficult things a child can do . I last 7 years in a shelter where I suffered any kind of abuse.
I do not want my granddaughter to live the same, I refuse this. I want her to have a happy childhood. Enough is with the loss of his mother, but here I am to take care of her with my husband and give her a decent family.
ALREADY CPS!