Is joking sometimes wrong? If it is, didn't you know that it was just a joke? Should you get mad because it's offended you even though it didn't hurt you physically and mentally? If you will get mad easily let's just stop having a conversation.
Earlier I offended someone because of the way how I made jokes. He/She thought that my jokes were below the belt which is not true. I don't like to hurt people's thoughts especially if they became my friends already. I'm a sensitive person so if ever I don't want to make jokes but it's part of me. So when I know someone and that someone knew that I am like that. I'm confident to make jokes without boundaries. Why there should be boundaries when we already knew that we're joking from the very beginning.
I said sorry to that person because I offended him/her. I hate the feeling when I hurt someone because it's limiting to do conversation and to have fun. I became afraid if I said wrong to another person. I am sorry because he/she understood it that way. Even I said sorry still it irritates me to think that I made wrong again. It also annoys me because some part of my mind couldn't accept that I was wrong. It's not that I'm hard-headed I just don't feel like he/she should be offended.
That's why I hate it when something happens this way it won't take away in my mind easily. It happened almost 4 hours now but I'm still thinking of what I just did. Then it came that to make some reasonings why he/she acted like that. I thought we were friends joking each other and I thought she/he understood it already that we were just joking. Do you get what I mean? It so annoying when someone takes your words wrong when in fact from the first place you already knew that it was just a joke.
Why would you mad when you already knew that it's nothing personal. I may pass the borderlines where it's not a good joke anymore. But still, why there should be borders when again you already knew that it's not personal. If I got you personally from my jokes why would you think that I wanted to offend you? If what I said was true or not you just ignore it because it's not my intention to pierce your heart by that joke. You know it's a joke but you got it wrong. Come on, joke sometimes has no limitations.
If you will act that way then you should not have a fun conversation. You should not agree to joke with me. Just advice because I don't want you to be mad at me forever. I want you to be my friend. Please be open-minded that when you know it's a joke there's nothing personal from it. Sorry again if I acted dumb because I just thought that it's a way where we can change the subject.
I don't want a fight and I want peace. Please don't take it in a wrong way if you don't understand what am I talking here.
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