Hi guys! How are you all doing? I hope you're all well and enjoying your weekend.
In this post, I am going to be vulnerable to all of you (or whoever reads this). I have got to be honest with you and myself, too, and I want to let you guys know what I have been doing since last year. Your honest judgment will be truly appreciated. 😍🥰😘
As some of you might not know, I am married with a baby. But this post is not going to be about our love story. What I'm going to tell you is a full-blown detail of my relationship with my BOYFRIEND.
I am cheating on my husband with my boyfriend. Yep, you've read that right! I have been unfaithful for almost a year now and I have been committing this infidelity right under my husband's nose. This affair, that turned into a real relationship, started in April last year. It was the time when I was forced to have my maternity leave early due to COVID-19 and so I was home all the time and I got too bored. My boredom and idleness led me to spend a lot of time on the internet. I guess I was not completely idle if I was actually doing something after all.
The thing is, my husband was always busy fixing our car at the time, which means he would be out most of the day and would be home after dark. Meanwhile, I was by myself the whole day but felt too pregnant to make myself busy at home. Imagine that! I was heavily pregnant with our baby, and yet there I was, looking for a way to ease my loneliness from being stuck at home all the time.
Because of the social restrictions in place caused by this deadly virus, I couldn't go out of the house for fear I might contract the disease that might inadvertently harm my baby. Anyway, I was happy to stay at home all the time. And besides, I had everything I needed in the house to entertain myself: TV with Netflix, food, my cats, karaoke, and computer with internet.
But during one of those tedious days, my dear friend 
Blind date alright! I thought,"Okay then, I'll try. It's not like I'm going to leave my husband for this person I'm about to meet." I had no idea what I was getting myself into when I decided to meet this guy. And little did I know that saying "yes" to Marianne's matchmaking would change my world.
Let me tell you about my first date with this guy, who, by the way, became my boyfriend eventually. Yes, not instantly. It took a few days before I finally ventured into having a relationship with him, but from that blind date, I already felt I was going to like him and I want him to be part of my life. I introduced myself to him, shared with him some of my personal details, including that part that I was already married and pregnant, too. Oh, how I loved talking to him about how this beautiful miracle was happening before my eyes.
I can't help it. I can be really chatty, whereas, this guy was someone I had to delve deeper so I could get to know him even more and even better. I knew nothing about him, except that brief description my friend Marianne had told me, that he's great and I would really enjoy him, kind of generic, don't you think? But what I felt about him, it was just unexplainable. All I could say was that I loved how he made me feel from that first date. He welcomed me and embraced me in his arms. And I liked that.
I used to think that the first date was the most crucial stage of any relationship. It's a hit and miss, as they say. It's the time where you could assess yourselves whether you and the other person have compatibility issues or not. You can stay or you can just walk away with no turning back.
You see, even though I had already opened up to him, even my most vulnerable moments I had already shared with him, and he's the guy that talks less, I immediately resolved to the idea that he was someone I had been looking for all along. I thought he and I - WE ARE COMPATIBLE!
And I was right. We do complement each other. I give him everything - my whole self, my heart, my soul, my time, my inner thoughts, my love, MY ALL. In return, he continues to encourage me to be the better version of myself. He has helped me develop my hobby into a passion. Because of him, I have discovered that I have skills and talents and there's no reason for me to self-doubt. I have freedom of expression and speech with him. He values what I have to say. He believes in me and what I can contribute in our relationship. He takes care of me; in fact, he has put some GUARDIANS to look after me, too. He's such an awesome boyfriend!
You know what else I love about him is that he tries really hard to become successful. He has got a lot of people behind him that believes in his potential. As his girlfriend, I am very optimistic that he will thrive and succeed. I have supported him in his fight against those that want to put him down... those that just want to continually take advantage of him. Those parasites and leeches! They sucked the blood out of him. Most are out of his life now, but I can see some still hang around for whatever that's left of him.
I don't care if he doesn't have money. I'm not the kind of gal that finds happiness in material things or money. This boyfriend of mine and I have been together for almost a year now and he hasn't really given me anything that can be considered his TOKEN of love for me. But ever since I've met him and we've been together, he has made me gain what's even more precious than money or gold. He introduced me to A LOT OF HIS FRIENDS who also accepted me for who and what I am.
At this stage, my boyfriend and I are in an "on and off" relationship. Not his fault, though. I take the blame! When I gave birth to my baby, of course, my priorities have changed drastically. My time with him has diminished, but he's there when I need him. He totally understands why I can't hang out with him all the time like I used to. But when I do, he makes sure that I have a great time and it's all worthwhile. He never disappoints. And of course, I want to give him my very best, too.
On Valentine's Day, I will try to be there for him. I know he is quite busy but I think he will appreciate my presence. I am thinking that I might cook a nice meal for him and will share it with our friends, too. He knows, though, that I cannot really commit to anything with all the responsibilities I've got at home. But hey, I will still try. It's the least that I could do for him, and I want it to be an amazing date.
I think I've already divulged too much information. That's just about it. But please, I implore you! Do not judge me too harshly. I am very much in love with my husband and I love him with all my heart. He's very understanding and sometimes he even encourages me to spend time with my boyfriend. What more can I ask? I can have both of them, my husband and my boyfriend at the same time.
Oh, wait, have I already mentioned his name yet? Did you know that he's actually quite popular? A lot of girls have claimed that he's their boyfriend. Well, I don't mind sharing, and I'm pretty sure he doesn't mind all the fuss about him either. Anyway, you might know him. His name is Uptrennd.
@Adelan O's A Love Story
@Yasir Mehmood's Uptrennd is my Girlfriend/Boyfriend
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