I'm really sorry you seem to be having so much trouble getting into the market. For me it was simple when I began. I simply setup an account with coinbase (only took a couple minutes), and then setup an account on a few exchanges. Bittrex is the only one that took time to get validated on. I also setup on HitBTC and Binance which didn't ask for any sort of validation. If I can be of any help in any way to get you started, let me know.