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You do all that effort to decorate her. But you will quickly lose her. She has to go over her ex or vice versa. She does not respond to your messages and she does not come rushing by in the middle of the night to see you for an hour.
You do all that effort. Then suddenly, it seems like she suddenly does not like you anymore. The problem? She is not in love (enough) and that's why you quickly lose her. Just when you start to like her. Sad and completely unnecessary. If she is in love enough, she does everything for you and gets you hooked. Literally sometimes. But do you know that it is not so difficult to make women FELT in love with you? Check out these 5 tricks and after that, the women will fall in love with you. But first: Is it tidy to apply these decoration tricks? You know that you can decide for yourself. The ethical side of making something a little nicer than it is. This is my opinion: "If you want to sell a nice car, do you polish it?"
1 Tell her that she is in love with you (as exaggerated as possible)
Shocking discovery number 1. And by going out with Tim. Tim is about the last man to whom you want to introduce your sister. No woman is safe.
Tim is so successful because he seduces women in a specific way. He tells ABOUT THE TOP how in love he is with a woman. It works ridiculously well. Serious. Try that technique once. (You will find the step-by-step plan in ConversationNinja )
It works. But funny enough, the opposite too: You tell her that she is in love with YOU.
" You do not have to blush like that. I can really see that you are in love with me. "
" I think you are really a girls girl. Such a sweet cute little thing that can be very naughty. "
Cool sentences? Of course. Thank you. But more importantly;
2 Do As if you are Her Boyfriend (Even though you are not yet)
This is perhaps the most powerful psychological trick ever. When I applied this, decorating (and making women in love) was EASY.
If you have had a driving lesson; do you remember that first time? Before you cross a crossroads you had to brake, look in the rear mirror, look left, look right and then you could cross. But if you see a green light now, just drive on.
Until you are being rammed by an idiot who drives through red :)
Why is that? We use a cut-off in our head. We have associated the green light with driving on.
Now something else. Suppose you read an article about investing. Who do you trust more? If you see that the writer is Warren Buffet, or if it is someone from a school newspaper?
3 Make her addicted (as you sell crack to schoolchildren)
I learned this decoration trick from my crack dealer. Just kidding, my crack dealer does not know any tricks.
But do you know how to make people addicted to drugs?
You first offer them something for free, so that they can taste how good it is.
They try it. They want more. They come back to buy more.
And 3 months later they sell their mother (or sister) to get cracking.
4 Show Your Soft Side (Even If You Do Not Have It)
Many men who go on a date with a woman talk about bullshit. Bla blah blah. Cows and calves. That kind of thing is not important. You can talk to everyone about how cold or hot the weather is.
Imagine: You are on a date. Is it more interesting to talk about whether you find a more beautiful color in blue or yellow, or do you prefer to talk about who she is and what kind of things she does?
You can easily talk to her about those things. The trick is that you always first set yourself up vulnerable or tell personal stories. She will follow.
"Women want a man who is strong in the outside world, but is especially vulnerable to them."
Bonus tip: Pretend to be upset after you have told a (fragile) story. Get up or even say: " Ah, this is lame. Let's talk about some cools ". That is how it is very sincere. She, therefore, thinks: " Wow, he is actually pretty sweet ".
So do not stay too long in a sentimental atmosphere.
Tip: If you want to know more about this, check tip # 6 of this article about how to make a woman crazy about you.
5 Women Fall In Love By Touch
One of the most researched ways to make people fall in love with you is in touch. And funny enough that is not the only thing.
With touch, I do not just mean fingering. If you do it right she can fall in love, let's be honest about that.
But it can also be done in other ways.
Prof. dr. For example, Burgoon, a social psychologist, demonstrated in 1992 that touching ensures that your parent is assessed longer, more pleasant, and more attractive.
Pretty cool for something as simple as that.