Just because you get married doesn’t mean the game stops. In fact for a man that’s when the game really gets going! We should always be studying how to improve our relationships, especially when it comes to identifying basic facts and knowledge and then making decisions on those real world scenarios.
I have kids that will someday need to understand these relations. If I don’t properly prep myself for these topics and discussions now, I’ll be behind the ball when it’s time to help my kids.
We should never fear learning anything new. The risk of not learning something (and especially not admitting to basic facts and truths) far outweighs learning something and that knowledge harms you. Knowledge usually only carries benefits, not costs. The risk of harm is much greater from not being autodidactic.
If anything everybody who wants/is in relationships, and anyone with kids should jump into the blue pill red pill debate and understand both sides inside and out. Not doing so only harms yourself in the long run.
The problem is people let emotions and opinions get in the way of accepting basic realities. For many it’s just too hard to accept. We want everyone to be treated fairly, which we usually associate with equality.
…but men and women are biologically different and the way we are composed makes it so we also have different needs and wants.
Ignoring this is dangerous for almost any person in this world.