Yes, it's true I train in communication, but I dedicate this post to those seeking more direct approach.
Feel free to comment.
When I was younger I used to employ different 'strategies' to try and establish this:
- Look for 'tells'
- Which way are her feet pointing when she communicates with you
- Are her wrists open (shows vulnerability)
- Does she tilt her head slightly when she talks to you (affectionate)
- Doe she touch you lightly
- How is messaging with you Vs her friends
- Frequency of communication
- Type of communication? (Functional or moment by moment)
- How does SHE respond
- When you touch her (elbow, arm, small of back)
- How do you say 'hello and goodbye'
These days.I go for an even smarter strategy:'So I like you. How do you feel about me?':p