After an hour and a half of listening to her struggle to follow a logical train of thought. I am going to go out on a limb and say, the reason she was asked to repeat a year of training was something other than the males not understanding the subtle differences between men and women.
You wonder why men don't want to be around women. She can't hack it and first thing she does is blame the men. Did you ever stop and consider that the reason they don't have confidence in you is because they see you doing a shitty job. Not because you don't go shooting with them.
If she does her job as a Surgeon anything like the way she plans to be a Parent. Maybe she should reconsider being either.
I did learn two important things from her. Surgeons are Superhuman and don't need sleep and children who feel abandoned by their Career Parents will feel better decades later if they find out the Parent had an important job.