I didn't get married right away. We had a verbal agreement that marriage was just a piece of paper that two people sign. Once you get married laws and rights and regulations and rules start being flown at each other and I wanted no drama. He agreed and lied at the same time. The moment I found out I was pregnant with my first child, he said we should be married immediately because his job had excellent insurance and the baby should be well taken care of. So, on that note, I agreed and signed the paper, so the baby would be well taken care of ...and he was