I don’t know if I’d say it doesn’t have any direct impact on their life, I think I’d say they are responsible for their own state of mind. You can certainly make it easier or more difficult on them, and but sometimes making it too easy on them comes at the expense of your own responsibility toward yourself, and in the end their happiness or dissatisfaction is their own business as long as you do what you can without ignoring your own needs.
You are saying the same thing though, essentially, and the second half of what you said was worded very beautifully!
I loved your comment and I will try to remember to check out more of your posts, without giving myself an obligation! You would love the Be Awesome chat, link in most of my post signatures, I forgot it in this one.
RE: Self Indulgence or Self Love?