Thank you for opening up so freely, I admire your courage. The truth may set someone free on both sides of this difficult issue. I feel your pain it is difficult having depression, it is probably even more difficult loving someone with depression. Your a fighter and you are a worker of patience and love. I would encourage any spouse, when possible, for the sake of peace, do what the other simply can not or won't. Next anniversary take the wheel and drive well my friend!! Peace & Blessings to you*****