Im Angesicht des Names deines Blogs hatte ich wirklich einen kleinen Shock als ich den Titel des Artikel las:

I've been cheated: man hat mich betrogen
I've been cheated on: mein Partner hat mich betrogen

Sorry to pick up on that after you had such a frustrating experience, but it did make me smile - I hope you see the funny side. Seriously, what a pain about the lens though. I remember my first eBay experience left me £200 out of pocket. I hope some good karma is coming your way.