Am proceeding from your last statement “Live Big Today and Dominate Life.” Like the biblical exhortation that we have dominion over the earth? You seem to be favoring the statement that life is what you make it and not as others make for you. That whatever occurs in your life is your own making and not by anyone else.
Would like to cite herein a scientific view and conclusion based on experiments that say “Human Emotion Physically Shapes Reality!” This is actually the title of my post on the matter which is also the title of my source/reference blog. Would invite you to take a look for possible resonance/relevance with your thoughts.