Hi steemians good day to you all, i'm going to write on the above topic. What is marriage? Is an institution of a married man and woman called the husband and wife. In our society today and also in our marriages today divorce is the key, it is a rampant situation. Some don't even know the meaning of marriage and they just rush into it, e.g like our youth today they just want to show off during the wedding, one thing they don't know is that wedding is for a day, marriage is for a life time. Before rushing or heading into something you have to know much about what is being done in it before entering into it. The issue of divorce these days take a look at most of our celebrity today most of them are married and divorced with kids, divorce can also affect the child in all ramifications.
Causes of divorce
Fighting and quarreling on a particular issue, a times it might be an issue that is not really serious but we take it over seriously.
Lack of patience: The wife needs to be patience in all things happening in the home, but there are some things the husband might do that might not guarantee patience from the wife, this might lead to fight in the home. The issue of child birth can also cause divorce. One prayer i use to pray is that when i get married i should get all the love and affection from my husbands parents, with that is like the wife is holding unto a pillar, but the moment they don't love you its a really big issue on ground, when is time for you to give birth and it keeps prolonging that is when problems begins to rise and that's why in a marriage prayer is really needed. The wives don't do things that will make your husband to look outside in terms of dressing, cooking, taking care of the shores at home these are extremely important issues. Husbands and wives should mind the type of friends they associate themselves with, even if you have a bosom friend your spouse should have known him or her before marriage or during courtship, some male friends can attempt to sleep with their friends wife without thinking anything bad about it.
In conclusion
Youths out there learn the various ups and downs in peoples marriages before going into it, because it is very important so you wont have regrets at the end of the day. Always study your spouse its very important. Divorce can come in any way be it physically, spiritually, materially etc, even the bible condemns it. Divorcees out there always find it difficult to get married again due to what have happened in their past lives before, in other for it not to repeat itself, no one will want to marry a divorcee especially the ones who already have kids, except maybe if the person is financially buoyant. Thanks for reading its your girl
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