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A down-to-earth events planner has revealed what it’s like to date one of the world’s biggest porn stars. Mike Adkins, 32, has been dating Allie Haze for the last four years after being introduced by a mutual friend.
Thirty-year-old Allie is the star of a string of famous adult-movies - including Star Wars XXX: A Porn Parody where she plays a more sexually adventurous version of Princess Leia. Despite Allie’s controversial day job, Mike says he wasn’t intimidated the first time they had sex. And, most surprisingly, he doesn’t feel jealous that Allie has sex with other men - and women – every day. Mike, who lives with Allie in Las Vegas, told Barcroft TV: “I didn’t feel intimidated having sex with a porn star.
“I really didn’t look at it that way. I just look at her as a person. But yeah, she is definitely the more adventurous of partners I’ve ever had. “It doesn’t bother me that she’s with other men as far as work. If it was something where she was just like, ‘I’m going out Friday night, going to hook up with some people’, that would 100% bother me. “There are times that she has been offered to do certain movies or whatever and I am just not very comfortable. “I mean, yeah, it’s a different job than being a receptionist or something, but at the end of the day you can’t base a relationship around each other’s career.”
Mike was unaware of Allie’s chosen career when they first met, and although it came as quite a shock, he admits that he found it “pretty cool”. Mike has never been on set with Allie, and whilst he caught glimpses of her videos in the very early stages of their relationship, he soon stopped watching them when things began to get more serious. He said: “I don’t watch her videos. Nothing against them – I’ve just got her right beside me so I don’t feel the need to.”
Allie added: “Yeah when we first got together he didn’t really realise – like knowing I’m an adult film star is one thing, and then knowing how popular I am and how active I am – he didn’t know a lot of that. “I’m sure people look at us and assume we have giant orgies in our bedroom. I mean our sex life is good, otherwise I still wouldn’t be here.”
Allie has worked in the porn industry for the last eight years - starring in more than 350 adult movies and winning multiple AVN Awards. The couple claim that they avoid talking about what Allie has done on set in detail – although she will occasionally use it to her advantage. Allie said: “Definitely before I leave, Mike is always like, ‘What are you working on today?’ and I’m like, ‘Oh, boy-girl, girl-girl’. “When I come home from work, we don’t necessarily talk about the day.
“But it depends too, like as a woman and as a spouse, I know what would turn him on. “So yeah, maybe I come home and tell him stories to my advantage to get some, sometimes. Depends on what the scene is. “I know what he likes to hear about. Maybe he gets annoyed with the fact that I want to have sex all the time – but other than that, I think we’re pretty good.” Mike admits that he was nervous when he had to tell his mother about Allie’s profession – not knowing how she would respond.
He said: “I called my mom and I left her a message and said, ‘Hey, I’ve actually been dating this girl and I’ve got to tell you something’. “My mom called me back and I was like, ‘Yeah she’s a porn star’ and my mom said, ‘Oh my God! Thank God! I thought you were going to tell me she was pregnant’”.
Allie has to get tested for potential STI’s every 14 days. She often gets recognised for her work when she’s out and about – a part of her job that she mostly enjoys. She said: “Being recognised in public is kind of hit and miss which is nice. “As far as my work schedule goes, I mean it’s changed. I’m eight years in the business now, going on nine, and it’s a career so you take it in stages.
“One of my favourite things about shooting is, you know, that butterfly experience that you love to get when you’re first dating or doing something – and I get to do that over and over and over again. I like to keep it that way. “I choose my partners and most of them I work with are married with co-workers of mine.
“I love my job. I’m very very lucky and super blessed to have a career that I love going to.” Allie has always preferred to date people outside of the porn industry, confessing that most of the public are unaware of her story and how she was in fact married to a preacher in her past.
“As far as other guys that I’ve dated in the past, I’ve had an interesting run of men to say the least,” she said. “I’ve always dated outside the business. I’ve always dated ‘civilians’, but definitely the other ones had interesting life choices.
“Mike is definitely more grounded. I love Mike so much, I can’t even express how I feel about him. I am one crazy person. I am a lot to handle and I’m very grateful to have him by my side.” Mike added: “I love Allie very much, to the moon and back.”
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