Now I cannot talk for women who like women, and men who like men. But even so, this can relate.
I am saying that in a relationship, no two person can both be the alpha male (without killing each other) and no two people can both be the feminine (without judging each other too be too soft and weak).
Women, we are genetically wired to receive, think about how our vajay-jays(vagina) draws inward, and men, their gifts from nature, the protrusion of their genitals.
So ladies, if you gettin' tired being the pusher and chaser all the time in your relationship, maybe that's the reason why. Go check out my Dlive video talking exactly about that.