Every time her body and face you hit
Every piece of her heart you shred and bit
She is not your gym spot where you test if you are fit
I am sure if you pitch yourself against another guy you will sit
So why would you betray her love and her affections jilt?
You feel so proud hitting her and you are even fully kit
Your once adorable heart, now you ran ragged, far from being neat
Her heart you have shattered and one day, your match you will meet
This is a very big issue: domestic violence. It eats more and deeper into our system and society and so many people have been a victim and lost their lives to it.
I know the thoughts on your mind, some ladies beat guys too, they test so many of the guy’s patience level too much. Yes, I know that, and I will address it in the next post. More of the attention is on the guys, and that is because we are expected to do better than them. We are expected to protect and love. We are expected to handle our emotions better. Regardless of what the lady has done, if anyone walks up to the scene, they will definitely blame the guy because they would believe he used his strength to full throttle because he knows the lady cannot match him.
Sometimes they test us, most times they frustrate us, hahaha, and it is better to just walk away. Yes, every time, just walk away. It is a tactic that has worked over time, but if that doesn’t work for you, with every single impulse in you, just refrain from doing the expected.
Every guy needs a little level of emotional restraint. See them at the gym where you work out your level of patience, and it gets better over time that you grow more thick skin.
I recently heard the story of a guy who got slapped twice at an ATM stand by a lady. The lady came late to the ATM point and still claimed she was there before a guy that she obviously met there. The guy said, “If you are the one the devil wants to use for me today, it won’t work, because I know all of us will definitely withdraw from this ATM point”, and the guy shifted as he allowed her to take up space before him. The lady dared the guy to repeat it, and the guy did, down came the double-crested slap. Haha.
According to the guy, he thought about his mom, his sisters, and also his cousins staying in their house, and he walked away, even without withdrawing from the ATM point anymore. Everyone expected him to beat her to a pulp, but he took the high road and walked away.
As you can see, this is so hard for him to do. I admit it is too hard not to react in this scenario. I learned from it, just take a walk. Your ego that would be bruised at that moment doesn’t pay any bills, does it? Don’t do it.
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.