I think it is a perception created by hollywood movies from a global perspective. A woman who drinks alcohol in movies usually either can't handle this alcohol and gets very drunk and causes problems, or she stands as strong as a man despite the alcohol she drinks because she has skin wounds/problems that she suppresses and tries to stay strong. In both cases, the subtext is that the woman who drinks alcohol is all kinds of weak. Naturally, this situation also appeals to cishet men. because if there is a man who is closer to that woman than the others, the woman succumbs to her weakness and spills all her dirty laundry, and the man takes care of her; that moment is the epitome of honor and morality. it can be the opposite, the man takes advantage of the woman's weakness and rapes her; often the outcome is indirectly linked to the woman's drinking.