Hello Guys, Welcome to my second @DSound Audio Log. And today I am very excited because I will talk to you about relationships. That’s one of my favorite topics to discuss about. I will talk especially about 4 things that are killing your relationship with your partner. In the last part I talked about how to maintain your momentum of producing content and how you can leverage @DSound and other @DApps to be successful. And it got a pretty decent response. I hope I will get one upvote from @DSound. :-D Today’s topic is very different from the first one and but very interesting. I chose this topic because sometimes I also face problems in my own relationship with my wife. We keep on resolving them and communicating with each other to clear out any confusion or drift.
SO, let’s jump right into it and talk about a few things that are not good for your relationships:
Ego: This is the biggest reason why relationships do not work out or fall apart. Now I understand that you have a lot of self-respect inside you and sometimes it comes in your way and become an ego issue for yourself. This is the worst thing happens when both of the partners are thinking through their egoistic minds rather than their heart. For that matter, ego is such a virus that it can ruin your career, your mind, your relationships and ultimately your life. Try to be calm at all possible times and even when you think that nothing is going in your way then take a break. Regain your positive thoughts and think about the bright stuff that is going to happen if you actually let your ego go away and talk to your partner. Resolving problems in a relationship will help you more rather than not discussing them because you have too much pride in yourself.
Improper communication: Now Communication is one of the most important things that are there in a relationship. It is directly related to the compatibility with your partner. Now imagine a situation where you do not share your thoughts or you are not comfortable talking about general things with your partners like how did your day go? What are your likes and dislikes? What are their likes and dislikes. With proper communication, you can actually get to know your partner, maybe about the things that would hurt them. So, you do not do it or do not repeat it again. Telling your partner to stop anything which you do not like is also very important. This will ensure that they will not do something that bothers you too much. TALK OPENLY ABOUT EVERYTHING, ESPECIALLY THE STUFF THAT HURTS.
- Criticism: This thing is no good either unless you are an app reviewer or a film critic. That way you can earn money out of it. But criticizing your better half every day is not going to help you sustain in your relationship. They will listen to you once or twice, maybe thrice but in the long run, they will get irritated and get back at you. They might even start criticizing you in everything you do and when you realize this, it will be too late. SO please stop being a critic to your love in everything they do or think, instead you can communicate with them politely and discuss about any issues you have with them. It’s very simple!
Awesome. Let’s move on to the next thing
- Ill Health: The next thing that I want to discuss here is your health. Now, please understand this. If you are not healthy then you are not happy. You can’t keep up with the expectation from your partner and thus you end up ruining your relationship with them. They will get petrified with this and lose interest in you because all you and they need to care about is your health. Nothing else! So, eat good food, work out and keep yourself healthy and lively if you want to succeed in your relationship and life.
Alright guys! I hope you enjoyed today’s audio log. Improve on these little things that can become a huge problem in maintaining your relationships. These are lessons for life. Let me know in the comment section if you liked it. Give me your upvotes and follow me if you like my overall work. I also create awesome reviews and guides about apps on the Steem Blockchain. Stay tuned about more such content. See you in the next one.
Byeeeeeee!
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