My advice? Take everyone's advice with a grain of salt, and make all the mistakes you can to find your own voice, because the reality is, no one can show you how to find what's only uniquely yours to find. There's no mistakes on that path anyway. So well done Hive account@coruscate on all you success here on Steemit and "mistakes" too. Ive got plenty to learn from people like yourself on this one of life's amazing rides.