After each exam, there are always parents who look at the children's papers and blame the children's carelessness. If you want to be careful, you should be careful. The carelessness of the child seems to have been the pain of some parents forever. Every time I said, I made such a problem every time. I looked at the number "6" written as "9" on the test paper, and the English letters "b" and "p" were unclear, and some even copied the title. If you can copy one or two words, the parents' reaction is either violent or thunderous. The child naturally has a "bamboo bamboo shoots fried meat" or a heartache. The children's days are naturally the same. The truth is really the child careless?
I don't know if you have ever heard of the broken window theory, which was proposed by political scientist Wilson and criminologist Karin according to an experiment conducted by Philip Simeph, a psychologist at Stanford University. The experiment was to put an intact car outside, and it was ignored after a week, but when a window glass was broken, the car was quickly stolen.
This is the famous theory of broken windows. Although this is a theory of criminal psychology, but how do you care about the child's carelessness?
I have carefully observed the children who are serious and tidy, and found that they have one thing in common, that is, their own desks and table holes are also very neat, the learning tools are neatly arranged, and the books are classified into different categories. Put it out, the teacher asks for the homework, and can find the position at once; and those who are impetuous in the study, often lose the time when the exam answers, whenever I ask for a certain book, or ask for a job At the time, they always seemed to be in a hurry. They buried their heads in their schoolbags or in the table and rummaged through them. Even if other students had already sat upright, they were still awkward, and they had a look on the face. How the book here is not there."
Calling the parents of these children, they will also reflect that the child's desk is like a battlefield, a mess. The drafts, pens, and erasers that were written were scattered everywhere, and the room was messy. Parents are often just a few screams about this situation, and they start to clean up with their own help. I don’t realize at all that it’s these bad habits, like the one in the “Broken Window Theory” that is broken by the window, that will make the child start to have a serious attitude towards anything, of course. Including learning.
To cure the child's carelessness, start by tidying up the desk! The embankment of a thousand miles was destroyed by the ant colony. Don't underestimate the small details that can be done with this hand. It is this neat desk that allows the child to have a good habit of being careful and practical. From the desk to the study, from the study to everything, from everything to every question, it is this little movement, like the fire of the original era to completely eradicate the child's carelessness.
A clean desk gives your child a comfortable learning environment
A neat and orderly desk is the most basic condition for learning. Children's attention is not as concentrated as that of adults. They are easily attracted by other things. Objects on the desk that are not related to learning, such as small toys, drinking glasses, etc. , may directly or indirectly affect the child's attention. A clean desk not only makes others look pleasing, but also makes the children realize that this is the place to learn and ensure their learning efficiency. The mind calms down, and the natural problem will be more focused.
A clean desk makes children fall in love with learning
Japanese education pays great attention to the good habit of cultivating children from a young age: when children are young, the toys they have played are required to be placed in the same place. When they are used up, they need to be put back; when the children go to school The age, you need to organize the books to be used in the next day, parents do not help, can not wait until the next morning to rush to organize; their rooms should be cleaned up, clean up the room debris in time. Don't underestimate these little things. Do not only exercise your child's observation ability and hands-on ability, but also cultivate your child's self-discipline ability. Even children can get self-satisfied sense of accomplishment and enhance their optimistic and confident attitude towards life.
There was a mother who worried about her children not studying, so she invited a psychologist. When the psychologist came to the child's room, he was stunned by the messy room. He told the mother, let's sort out the children's study first. Soon, the room began to be well organized, bright and comfortable. At this time, the mother was surprised to find that she did not know when the child had picked up a book and read it with relish. The psychologist and the mother smiled at each other.
Liu Rong of the Qing Dynasty said, "Where is the rule of a room, why is the country of the world?" The "originator of the successful scholar" in the United States---the late big speaker Roman Vincent Peel also said: "The details determine success or failure. ", pointing out that detailing can determine the direction of the event. To cure the child's carelessness, it is better to start from the small desk at the desk. Cultivate your child's sense of order and concentration while developing your child's patience and self-discipline. I will sort out the items in order to sort out the knowledge, plan my own space, and plan my life better, isn't it?