Participating in this initiative gives me the opportunity to write about an experience that I had a few years ago and that took me by surprise and therefore I was not prepared to face it. The aggressive personality and extreme jealousy of a loved one, I generate moments of anguish, fear and much sadness.

The first few days I was paralyzed, I did not react, I did not understand his attitude because I had never met a person with those characteristics that become monstrous and very difficult to face. But in time I decided that I had to face it, I must say that I did it alone

That person taught me without telling me directly, the reasons for their behavior, insecurity and having endured a person who taught them that violence is the way they have to educate their children, left its mark. It is so unfortunate that behaviors that have hurt you are learned and then applied, it is a vicious circle that must be broken. With patience and a lot of strength, it was possible to soften this relationship and tell of other wonderful aspects of the personality, however this leaves its marks, but I must say that it is one of the greatest learnings I have had in life.

Thank you for encouraging me to write on this topic, I never had and it made me feel very peaceful.