In the day to day there are small adversities that must be faced. The vision we have of what an adversity is also determines how we relate to it.
There are people who see adversity as:
- A mystery to solve.
- Other people who see it as a small gap to jump and go.
- There are people who see it as limiting.
- Other people end up seeing it as something they have to overcome.
Do people respond in the same way to adversity?
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It is not answered in the same way, and this is the responsibility of the education system, there are people who have been educated in:
- Resolutionive environment.
- Optimistic vision.
- People who incite autonomy.
- They are able to solve adversities, and they see it as another experience.
- There are people who have an easy life, and when something small comes to them, they see it as something tremendous.
On what does the reaction time depend on adversity?
It depends on several factors:
- The number of stressors that a person has in their life.
- The more things you have as a burden, the more stressed the person is.
- It depends on trust and security.
- It depends on the personality factors.
- It depends on the solution of problems you have.
People fall and get up. How do you manage to be a person who resists adversity?
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There are several things that define a person, such as:
- People who have confidence and security. When the person is safe and confident, it does not matter what problems get in the way.
- They are people with an optimistic vision. He is always quiet looking for solutions.
- People with hopes. They do not think that what happens ends with everything, no, they think that after the storm there is more to give.
- People who have goals. They go to a place regardless of the obstacles.
How can you deal with problems?
- When you make the solutions, the philosophy of life. Instead of complaining about what does not work, you should look for solutions.
- Accept what does not depend on us.
- Train the optimistic vision.
- Make a list of what you want to change, to work it.
- Strengthen the strengths.
- Learning from resolvers.
- Take responsibility for the acts.
- Assume mistakes.
- You should always feel grateful, not everything works.
Activity to teach children to overcome adversity
It is intended that children learn in a playful way to overcome situations that affect them, but that have solutions.
Children must understand that pain is part of life and that it is impossible to avoid it, that what hurts, even though it is suffering, helps to be brave and to have the strength to continue.
Activity the tree of optimistic people.
The tree represents the roots of people, that is, that they are capable of doing and of being because of their inner courage.
The children will learn to work through their strengths and weaknesses, they will create a tree with recycled material, with the following materials:
- Paper of different colors.
- Scissors.
- Color pencil.
The children will explain the reasons for each one, and this helps them to better understand their feelings and emotions.
Solutions must be sought, so as not to recreate more in the negative. If you really want to find solutions to many things, you must know how they work, and make things depend on themselves, with responsibility.
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Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://cindycam.vornix.blog/2018/11/26/how-to-teach-children-to-grow-up-in-the-face-of-adversity/