Strengthen the character of the child
The personality of the child
Childhood is one of the most important stages in human life. It is the stage of formation for his personality, which will accompany him throughout his life, and based on the safety of planting this personality, and when the personality of the child is weak. , Negatively or positively.
We find that the child, either strong personality arises, successful in his life, or that the control of ignorance and misery on his behavior, and he has a tendency to aggressive or social isolation and introversion of people. There are several ways in which a child's personality can be strengthened.
Steps in strengthening the character of the child
Moral reinforcement
Praise the child and praise him in front of others, and this strengthens the child's self confidence and feel the entity and existence.
Granting him the right to deal, treating him as a young child, and without interfering in the lives of adults and their problems, and behavior.
Consultation and taking his opinion in some actions and actions at home.
Encouraging him to take his decisions alone and bear the consequences of these decisions.
Encouraging him to privacy at home, giving him a room, a library of his own, and encouraging him to write his name on some things, such as books, children's stories, and some games.
Do not reprimand and push him to criticize himself always so as not to stand hesitant in front of every step taken even if it is correct.
To be continuously strengthened at every achievement, be it material or moral.
Demonstrate its distinction in events, such as dress and way of speech.
Take him on some visits and trips.
Develop his desire to make friends, with observation whenever necessary.
Educate him to talk to others.
It was good to deal with his questions as often as possible.
The fulfillment of promises made with him and without prejudice to them without an excuse, and when the breach occurred, show him the reasons.
His upbringing on high ethics such as honesty, honesty, respect for the elderly and so on.
Train him to rely on himself in some things, albeit in a simple way, such as cooking.
Always include the chest and notice it with love and maternal or paternal passion.
Not to be treated by an involuntary order, such as involuntary urination, for example.
Avoid hitting it or threatening it, and replacing it with dialogue.
Exposing him daily to the pleasant surprises, as a gift or a certain game, or food he loves.
Activities and practices
His recitation on the good to resort to God pray.
How to defend himself, to repel the aggressor, without endangering him.
Train him to behave properly when failing.
Getting used to some first aid methods.
Teach him swimming and some sports.
Instilling religious values in him, and training him to pray and read the Koran.
By: Ibrahim Al - Obaidi