Initially, sadomasochists were considered crazy and possible criminals until 1994, when a century of scientific progress erased the sadism and masochism of the diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders, explaining that the disorders that cause sexual murderous acts and sexual aggressor acts were of antisocial character of the personality.
Nowadays, it is considered something very different with respect to sadomasochism, calling them sexual practitioners, since they are the ones who can claim themselves as very different people with affectivity integrated into a sexual paraphilia where they only seek to feel more pleasure since sexuality is always evolving and innovating. place to answers that for years were secret in the intimacy of couples; likewise, man seeks new knowledge and concept regarding desire offering a variety of enjoyment.
In the same way, schools have been created in the present where they teach people to use whips, ropes, and chains well, as well as to analyze their partner in order to avoid serious injuries during the act. In addition there are also chats and clubs that allows you to know yourself in this field so that later you can apply it with your partner.
A masochistic person has recurrent and exciting sexual fantasies of being humiliated, beaten, bound, bitten being the one who obeys the other; unlike the sadistic person who has sexual fantasies that leads to reality, in which hitting, mistreating and humiliating his partner is extremely exciting being the one who gives the orders, guides or submits during the sexual process.
It should be noted that the sadomasochistic person enjoys in either of the two cases. Of course, in an act of sadomasochism the people who participate must agree completely, although, for the experts, sadism and masochism are placed within the called "Paraphilia" (perversions).
It is to emphasize that this type of practices cause serious problems to the people who perform them, both psychological, physical and social. Psychologically these individuals suffer mental wear and tear because all they think is their sexual fantasies.
In the social field they have a hard time having a stable relationship, since not all people agree to participate in their fantasies due to the fixation they have for their fantasies, they do not adequately perform their work obligations. In most cases, people who have this kind of tendencies do not appear it, but they are a little lonely and shy.
Finally, the physical consequences suffered by these people are the bruises, scratches and even cracks they get as a result of their encounters; but be explicit: sadomasochism is not a practice where the victim suffers from low self-esteem; in fact, most of those who practice it did not suffer any type of abuse when they were small. Nor are they people who move away from intimate personal relationships, since many of them have established families and very strong romantic ties.
On the other hand, many people often say that it is abusive, but those who practice it defend it by noting that it is a staging. Violence is not real, but is a consensual action by the people who participate. It is necessary to have the least amount of prejudices when analyzing this type of relationship.
Ultimately sadism and masochism transcend the scope of perversions and that antithesis of passivity activity conditions the general sex life. Almost always there is usually a dominant and a dominated, and can be of the sadomasochistic type, where there is flagellation and scourging,or discipline, something that is rather restriction and prohibition.
Although sadomasochists are not many, there is a high index of fantasies about them. According to surveys, about 12% of women and 20% of men have these fantasies frequently. However, in order to establish a pleasant relationship for both, a fluent communication is also necessary, as well as knowing how to respect the limits of the other.
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