I am from Belgium and its kind of the same way. Personally I have always admired people who can dance (i used to have no rithm whatsoever but have managed to train it a bit over time)
And I have learnt not to care what other people think of me so I just go out and enjoy myself.
Even though im not gay i wish i would be able to dance the salsa or batchata but i cannot even hear the difference so its hard