The abuse could be physical or mental. This is a topic that has a lot of extension because, how or when. As we could also name several factors that are important and that we can analyze briefly:
➀ The self steem How do you feel about yourself, analyze your situation as a woman / man and check if you are really happy, or if you are giving yourself the time you need to relax and take control of yourself. Because if you're not happy, you'll project it. It is very common to lose patience with children and we can not ask for the understanding and action of an adult.
➁ The organization There is time for everything if we plan ahead and we distribute our time with order and balance we could have control of our time and of some daily situation like work and day to day at home.
➂ Delegate We can not do everything and resolve ourselves. This is a very important point because if we want to solve and do everything some things escape or are not finished in the right way.
➃ Take it easy Analyze and observe that many of the things that destabilize you are not so important, you give that importance and make them bigger than they are, breathe and take control so you will see that many things were not as important as you thought. If you intend to see that little by little there will be an increase in that beautiful quality THE PATIENCE, which you need in the first place to be able to help and educate your children.
Raising a child can be a complicated task, since there is no manual or strategies to ensure success because each child is different.
Anger is a bad companion for the education of children, having Patience is a very important virtue.
Taking the time to occasionally feel gratitude for the arrival of children in your life, will help you respect them as unique and individual beings, as well as help you to value the importance of other people in your environment.