Not all parents understand how children follow the lessons or mingle with their friends at school. When you are called to school to discuss the child's behavior or achievement at school, listen carefully to the explanation from his teacher. That way, you know what the child's problem is at school.
Face a problem in a child's school with a cold head. Remember, your meeting with the teacher aims to find the best solution. So, do not immediately busy looking for those who can be blamed or angry when you do not really understand how to sit his case.
It may be the instinct of every parent to protect and defend the child against negative charges or stamps. However, that does not mean you should blame others and justify the child at all times. Look first at the context and situation. Find out why children have trouble at school, who is involved, and what the role of teachers in the problem.
Sometimes, the child could have made a mistake. Although it's hard to admit it, you have to be positive and be a role model for your little one. Do not even support the child for his opinion or behavior that is not true, because he will increasingly get approval from his parents to make trouble.