What is the true success?
How to lead a successful life?
Why only few people are successful and most are not?
What is the secret formula to success?
These questions are hovering in the minds of millions. Everyone wants to become successful, gain name and fame. Nobody likes failure.Some people think, if they get a big bank balance, beautiful wife, luxurious car and house, they will become successful. I have seen a lot of people who have a big bank balance but have broken relationship. Is it really success?
A 15 years old boy from New Delhi lost his father. When he reached 25 his mother passed away. His sister remained ill in depression and shock. But that boy didn’t concede desperation. He worked hard to support his family and remove all sorrow.
His hard work and determination made him the king of the Bollywood. He is the none other than
**Shahrukh Khan . He says ‘The only cure to remove sadness was to keep on working’.
If you go through the biographies of great actors like **Tom Cruise or king of Pop **Michael Jackson you will find that they have achieved the prosperity, dignity by overcoming a lot of challenges, struggles in their life.
I am citing his example because most people undergo depression in such type of situation and don’t do anything. He could have done that, but he didn’t. He kindled his strength and success kissed his feet.
Everyone has sorrow in their life. Life puzzles everyone, but most people can’t find the way to overcome their grief. They spend their rest of life in anxiety, depression, fear and erase the upcoming happiness. And there are many people who learn the art of converting sorrow into happiness and make their lives prosperous. Kolaklasik says..
Success is not the key to happiness, happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”
NO EXCUSE PLEASE
When some students don’t score good numbers in their exams they find excuses like ‘ I couldn’t study well due to illness’, ‘I had an emergency at home’ bla bla bla. There was a boy who got a seat in MIT which is a dream of millions of students all over the world.
But he didn’t get admission due to poverty. However, he took an admission in a distance course and developed a software which was highly appreciated by Microsoft. He got a job offer from Microsoft with a 2.5 million per annum package and 2% Microsoft share. He could have made many excuses but he didn’t. He continued his struggle and got the success.
Many of us have a number of excuses like ‘ I don’t have a good job as my college was not good’, ‘my financial condition is not good as my parents are poor’ . We make excuses to accept failure and stop struggling. So from today take a vow to stop excuses.
Fight your fear:
FEAR is a phenomenon which coils inside your mind. Fear of failure doesn’t make you proceed towards your goal. It makes you feel depressed like ‘If I fail what will happen?’.
If you want to turn your dream into reality then you have to learn the art of fighting fear. Fear can frustrate you before moving a step forward. It has the capacity to shatter you. Ward off the fear and rekindle the courage inside you.
If you develop the hidden power of courage then you can demolish a mountain also. You can make impossible to possible. Carry
DON'T KEEP YOUR WORKS FOR TOMORROW............ Opportunity does not strike twice. We lose many opportunities in our life. We say from tomorrow I will start a new life. From tomorrow I will start exercise. From tomorrow I will study seriously. Tomorrow never comes. Stay in the present. If you can’t start now then not tomorrow.
You may start small steps but start now. The Japanese know this secret. They start their daily job and accomplish it at any cost. If you want to learn guitar or play harmonium then start immediately without waiting for tomorrow. Who knows tomorrow may come or not. If you start with a single step then you will find the rest of the steps.
Stay hungry to gain knowledge:
Ignite the burning desire to gain knowledge. You don’t need to become a jack of all trades. But you may learn many topics out of your working field.
Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella says:
‘I buy more books than I can finish, I sign up for more online courses than I can complete’. From his statement, you can know the burning desire of his learning. In my childhood I used to think, ‘the people who are doing the job are the happiest person.
They are leading a perfect life and we are just staying in a jail, daily homework, monthly test, no freedom.’ And now I realize how the life of a working person is. There is a daily test, daily workout in office.
For the last 7 years, I am working for 70 hours per week. It is true that my work fascinates me, motivates me to help people to share knowledge.
First time when I start painting as an artist I found it more difficult to paint a concept in a week.. But now I can pain a concept in a day if I wish to... This happened because I developed the skill gradually while working and fell into the practice.
The enthusiasm of learning and gaining knowledge kindled me to work hard. To get
success never blow off the spark of learning.
THINK BIG
Many people apply this theory but very few of them succeed. Why? Because only seeing the post dated cheque won’t work. You have to be committed to working accordingly with right planning to convert your dream into reality. What is Google or Facebook today, because someone had a big dream in the past. Really every achievement starts with thinking big.
PRACTICE FORGIVENESS.... If you can’t practice forgiving then you can’t adopt nonviolence. It evokes your gentleness and humbleness. When Christ was crossed he prayed God and requested to forgive those people who are his silly children.
Forgiveness brings the politeness quality inside you. It finishes hatred and violence, vengeance inside you. The world war or any great war between countries happened and caused fatal violence to mankind because no one could forgive each other.
But great personalities like Jesus Christ, Gandhi, Nelson Mandela developed this quality. When Nelson Mandela was released after 30 years of imprisonment the first thing he did was the forgiving those people who had done wrong to him. He forgave them because he knew that forgiveness is the powerful weapon which could finish terrorism, violence and establish peace.
Geoff Thompson in his Famous book Warrior writes:
‘What Mandela knew, and what I have learned from my own life, is that forgiveness is actually metaphysical force, possessing the power of a thousand armies.’
Work for people instead of working for money:
Give a great value to people. People become rich because they give more values to more people. The money will not make you great, but your work will. Your work will make you immortal in the hearts of millions.
People earn money in the exchange of their service. But the real fact is, the money you earn won’t exist forever. The blessings of people for your great work nurture you into an eminent personality.
"DON'T STOP WHEN YOU ARE TIRED STOP WHEN YOU ARE DONE"
