Greetings Dear Community!
Our family and society are of great importance in our lives. That is why people feel fulfilled and satisfied to the extent that we establish healthy and harmonious relationships, both in the family and in the rest of society.
The welfare of the family is also the welfare of our children.
There is no family that is equal to one another. However, they all represent the first school of our lives. This is where we form our fundamental values for our children and as parents we grow as people for society, also remember that our Children act in the same way as we parents, so it is important to be a good example for them. It is also in our family where we establish the first contact with the world around us.
It is important that we maintain good communication and harmonious relationships (parents and children) that enrich all members of the family. Therefore it is necessary as parents:
Although we are very busy with our routine activities to set aside a quality time for our children. So you establish a better relationship and know more about them.
It is our duty to understand that all people are prone to mistake, our children are not the exception and we have to take consideration for it. To investigate where the fault was and give advice, is that it is difficult but you have to try to control anger.
Although it does not seem important to hear what our children have to tell us and respect their views. That is to say that although it seems insignificant to listen and interact so that they know that they are important like their affairs.
Many times it is difficult to express ourselves but it is necessary to show our feelings and opinions with sincerity all the time. There is nothing more impoortante than to express to your children how much you love them, no matter how old they are, to talk about everyday matters.
Establish responsibilities in the home so that they are people integrated into society.
How to relate better to our children.
Our children are our responsibility as long as they depend on our education and care. However, many times we have difficulty communicating properly with them. It is important to take into account that we can:
Dialogue amicably and in a coherent manner with them. This is for parents who have already adolescent children and we achieve it by conversing always looking for the possibility, and trying to know their ideas and opinions on some topic. We must also express ours, aportandoles ideas and councils.
We can also establish with them a relationship of friendship and trust, without forgetting that we are also parents.
Aceparlos and valuing them as people, recognizing their virtues until resaltandoles and treating them with respect, they also deserve it.
Involve them in our affairs. So they can know our personality and we have theirs. Many times as parents we forget that they can also be part of our activities.
Make respect for family rules and meet our responsalidad, paar that they see our example and so be able to demand them.
Always be available every time they need our help.
Show them that we love and respect them. It is always necessary to say a I love you, you are my pride, that good son you are, things like that motivate our children, not always emphasizes the bad also the good things are necessary to express them.
Give Recompesas when they deserve them. To motivate him that is always not work and responsibilities, behind all that there must be a recompesa.
Showing an attitude of solidarity, cooperation and tolerance towards them, being parents is not easy and we will never be perfect but our children is the motivation that drives us to do everything right.
Communication, respect, acceptance, tolerance, responsibility and solidarity form the basis of family welfare and as parents it is our duty to base them since they are young
