If a person loves only one person and is indifferent to all others, his love is not love, but symbiotic attachment or expanded selfishness (Erich Fromm)
When we are in love with someone, we would give our lives for that person. This can make us look like great people, because we go out of our way for that other one. But even the most selfish people can lose their heads for someone and look like delivered people. In the end, all they want is to satisfy their own desires. Great phrase of the German psychoanalyst Erich Fromm.
The objectives transform a random walk into a chase (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
Having goals in life and goals to pursue motivates us and makes the trip an exciting one. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi is one of the great figures of positive psychology and is known for the concept of comfort zone.
Only the liberation of the natural capacity of love of a human being can counteract its sadistic destruction (Wilhelm Reich)
You just have to look around to see how destructive the human being can become. Now, the human being can also be a loving and considerate person. The key lies in education.
Follow your heart but take with you to your brain (Alfred Adler)
It is good to follow what your heart tells you, because that will make you happy. Now, you have to use your head and not get carried away by all that your heart tells you, because you can be wrong.
There is a lot of randomness in the decisions that people make (Daniel Kahneman)
Kahneman, one of the researchers who have challenged the idea that the human being is rational by nature, talks about the chaotic nature of our decisions; even those that apparently obey logic.