Since I was a little girl I have heard macho phrases, where men and children accept everything. Mothers supporting children to have many: brides, women or "friends with rights."
Very macho parents who take pride in their children when they bring a collection of girls to the house. But this as parents makes us participate in the same sick society that supports man to be abusive, abusive and sexist. Héctor and Lilia were parents of two children: 9-year-old Lilibeth and 8-year-old Lisandro. From childhood, children were always being told phrases such as "who is this little thing for? Referring to his male member. How many girlfriends are you going to have? They all saw it as a grace. Uncles and cousins applauded that praise from Hector.
But careful and Lilibeth tried to have a boyfriend at an early age, that was more than a sin, a familiar humiliation. For the man who chose after graduating must be her husband. For they did not want to be the one to make me laugh at the town, or to have at home any one or one.
"To you, the woman who is slipping him," he emphasized, "Hector when there were family gatherings and he had one or two drinks." Women and men have the same rights. But why inculcate from that little seed where the child can not wash his plate, and the girl must be the cachifa of the house.
Let's do from small men and women of good, not dependent on a woman to do what to do from home. Men who do not know: washing a dish, cooking something for themselves, ironing a shirt or simple household tasks. If we look back and back, in most cases this happens by parents or mothers like Hector and Lilia. Where the man was the machito and cute boy who should not do those bullshit of the home "as they say" for that they had sisters or mothers like these.
All that should leave a reflection. Let's make a child an adult of good and above all useful, that can be useful in your home, that can help your own children without discrimination of sex (daily tasks, education in values Such as respect, loyalty, commitment, among many others), while the wife prepares a rich dinner. Let it not only be a question of bringing money and paying bills, but of being a man worthy example of his home.
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