Forced love
Hello and welcome all steemians.
A couple of days ago, I wrote an article with the same title.
But it was written in Dutch, so I geuzz a lot of people weren´t
able to read it.
Even with a couple of bot upvotes I couldn´t get the article running.
I think it´s because there aren´t a lot of Dutch steemians ready yet,
to get in to this discussion.
So I decided to translate it all to English in this post.
I might change or add some things here and there. But in the end
it´s still the first part of this topic called Forced love
So here we go...
Forced love
What is it?
Is it good?
We don´t know that!
Because you´re being forced into something that you actually don´t want.
Then which part is the unwanted part?
The forced part...Meaning that you are doing something without your consent.
For example stalkers, loverboys, sex slaves.
But it could also be a mother or a father.
Another form of forced love is a forced marriage.
And so there are a lot of ways to be
forced into it. All which we will discuss further in another script.
My girl shouts:”Swallowing cum! That´s also some sort of forced love.”
Me:”No comment”
She continues:” You see most men really love it when there spouse swallows there
sperm...right?”
She tells me that´s she doesn´t believe that all of them really do love doing it. But mostly
do it just to please their partner. That being said, one must always remember that there
will be exceptions. So if you really think about it we all have our own fetish, it´s
a person´s free choice what he or she prefers. Cause if you swallow or just get pregnant.
Both options can also be forced upon you. With the intention of giving love, or being loved.
In one instance you swallow to please. Even though you find it disgusting.
And with the other you might want to get pregnant afraid of losing him, but end up with a
baby, which you are forced to take care of and love.
This whole conversation did take place while we were having an epic discussion,
which ended with an exceptional climax.
Back to the subject.
I´m getting confused by her.
So she tempts to give me a better explanation.
A tail of flowers and bees.
So what is it?
Is it good...Or is it bad?
If you are trully happy and stand behind the choices you make than it´s good.
But who says that you are happy? And do you really make your own choices or
are the bestowed upon you. Are you being force to make them?
The answer remains open....hidden...so it does raise some quistionmarks in my
head.
Can you be profoundly happy if the choices you are given aren´t of your own creation?
Doesn´t that mean that those choices aren´t even choices at all?
What does being forced mean to you?
My girlfriends gives me her opinion on the matter.
In how many ways can person feel or be forced to do something, or feel forced into a
situation. Even then it´s still how you look at it.
One might conclude that it´s a thin line between being forced and free will.
At least that is how I understood her story.
So which one is better for us humans then?
Being forced is also a kind of displine.
She gives me some more examples of how other cultures and people do certain things
forced and than the majority might even describe it as free will.
Like if a husband would have the job and the wife would be the one doing the housekeeping.
Or in some religions and culture where a man is allowed to have multiple wifes.
The balans is usually way of. At some moments in the conversation we dived deeper into
the subject. Like some forced measures taken in sexual intercourses.
What should someone
allow and how that person can be manipulated into doing certain activities which can cross
their comfort zone.
Or being forced to face your fears in order to achieve that what you want
or don´t want. Like one could be very tender and loving and gentle, while their counterpart is the opposite and loves torture and teasing and pain.
It brings me to the next question.
How far would you go to please your spouse?
This because the title and subject is
forced love.
End of Conclusions.
Forces love is also Love!
This whole piece got inspired by a bowl of cornflakes which my girlfriend made
for me with love...after I forced her of course.
Authors 
Anekdote; This whole story is pure fiction and non facts, all was written in our own opinion
without the intent to hurt anyone´s feelings plus all picture are not of ours and only for illustration purpases. If you liked our blog and wish to read more. Pls
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