Hello friends in this opportunity I will share with you something that I wrote in my notebook when I was 4 months pregnant and I was able to know the sex of my baby. I was so happy but at the same time nervous, since I knew of my pregnancy I wanted a girl and when I found out that it would be a cold man, the film that I had built with a girl had to change it and rewrite it but this time with a boy so I took my notebook and decided to write a letter which said the following:
Dear son, today the doctor told me that you would be a boy and I am certainly nervous I do not know anything about boys, my job as a dance teacher is with girls so I understand more about them, but I promise to learn enough to make you really happy, maybe Sometimes I fail you and surely I do not know how to dress because I'm not good at it but do not worry I'll learn it too.
Always imagine the endless hours of dancing with my future daughter, so knowing that you are a man I wonder what I can teach you of me and do it with the same passion with which I could teach you to dance and because of so much thinking I concluded that it is my obligation to make you a good man, from principles a man of God a human being so strong that the adversities do not collapse you but at the same time weak, that the smile of a good woman fall in love with you, that is why I will enumerate the things that you should Learn to be the best version of your daddy and your mommy.
People will make you believe that the world is divided into; ugly-beautiful, white-black, poor-rich, fat-skinny, kings-commoners etc., and although it is true and the world is divided, these characteristics are not what divide these are only stereotypes, the world is only divided in Good People and Bad People, the first is a compendium of people around the world who are able to give without asking in return, who do not harm their neighbors or themselves, they are people with a great capacity to love and help without measuring color, race or social condition, it is from this side that you must go for a child. The second is bad people those who harm ruthlessly and only watch for themselves, people who hurt others, who judge others, who do not know how to love others or themselves, they do not keep them close to you or They will end up poisoning you.
Comrades and acquaintances you will find throughout your life in bulk but Friends I regret to tell you that few my beautiful son, or perhaps in this life you do not even have the privilege of getting one, and if you get to take care never fail him few people find true friends.
Many of those around you will want to see you "Good" but never better than them, so try to save yourself for your success plans, that will be like your key and remember that the keys usually steal them and more even if they do not want to see you open the door of success.
You must learn to have an unshakeable Faith, "Faith is the certainty of what is expected, and the conviction of what is not seen" Hebrews 11. Over time you will understand that the world is moved by faith, in something or in someone most of the time, unfortunately many people do not have faith in themselves but in banal things, so you must be careful that you rest your faith, your Daddy and your mom have a fervent faith in God the Creator and Jesus your son as the teacher who gave us salvation, but will not limit you to our beliefs, you must explore the world and cultivate knowledge about all types of Faith that exist and trust that your right heart will find that deity that will give you the necessary faith to cling to her in your difficulties. Also and no less important is to believe in yourself, being that Faith in your abilities and your talents what will make you a successful man.
Dad always said to me "The cuts do not take away the brave" I do not really know where I got it from or who wrote that phrase, the truth is that I realized that I was not wrong when I said it, since I was a child I always said good morning although few people responded, I always thanked them for the smallest thing they gave me and my neighbors always greeted them when I was walking even when I knew they did not like them, and you know my son that helped me tremendously, people had very good My concept and nobody ever denied me a help, it feels good when people admire your personality that will elevate your spirit.
In my time my mom taught us never to arrive empty-handed to a house, be it a neighbor, a friend or a relative, the rule was to take something, your grandmother always said "You never know what the house needs where we are going , and it is very probable that they offer us something out of courtesy and they are left with nothing, so we should not arrive with empty hands ". Now in these times of crisis in Venezuela where people share little by living so measured in what we have to gstar, I realize that what your grandmother taught me has been a great blessing for the people I visit, and I hope you also do the same when you grow up.
"The best picardy is to look good". I also do not know the author of that phrase, but I was anchored to it when my boss, a successful and renowned lawyer told me and I want to explain why I hope that you will also carry it as a precept anchored to your personality. "Stay well" is not only doing what is right for you, it is not just being honest, "Be well" implies more:
You must be punctual where fences, remember that successful people are the first to arrive but also the first ones to leave because their time is valuable, so do not miss opportunities to meet people that you can learn to be late.
You must be really honest, that not only implies not taking what is not yours but also being honest with those around you, there are people who do not steal but use lies or manipulations to obtain money, do not do that, it is part of the NO HONESTY.
You must highlight where fences, but not for your physical or economic condition if not for your talents, if you do the above maybe some praise you but for those who really care you will be very bad in their eyes.
You must be responsible with what you do or say, we are all wrong because we are imperfect human beings but few recognize our mistakes and ask for forgiveness, sometimes to be good at our mistakes we justify them but that is wrong the correct thing is to assume what we did wrong ask for forgiveness if necessary and I assure you that this is the only way to look good.
Fall in love so many times you feel possible without harming anyone, love is the energy that moves the universe but unfortunately in the name of love injustices are also committed. Scientists say that a person in the infatuation stage develops skills and is usually more creative, so fall in love as many times as you can and enjoy those moments, but do not break hearts, always be your sincerity your shield, it will be inevitable that you live disappointments and that cause disappointments too, but I assure you that if you are sincere first of all, the suffering will be less.
You never base your happiness on someone's misery. At first you may be happy but sooner or later that enchanted castle will begin to deteriorate, some people call it "Divine Justice" others more skeptical call it "Karma" I simply deduce that it is a lesson we must learn, that your happiness is a game clean won not from a dirty trap.
If I could sow something in you, I would sow the love of reading, academic education and general culture. The first one will feed you from other people's experiences, from their experiences and even if you do not believe it, you will avoid many setbacks or, failing that, how to handle them. The second will raise your intellectual and professional level and finally learning general culture will lead you to be a person with whom you can play any topic, and believe me my child that will make you very interesting for those around you.
Last son of my heart as a song says "If it inspires you to be a shoemaker, I just want you to be the best because the doctor is useless if it is the bad example of the people". I love you.
@Noteswill