It is no secret to anyone the fact that most of the young people who make up our society have not been or are not trained so that in the not too distant future they will form their own family, at least in the most appropriate way.
It is not difficult to find homes where parents feel sorry or afraid of having to talk to their children about difficult and entrusted topics such as sexuality, love, courtship, marriage, and children. Unfortunately, few parents overcome this pain or fear and are able to discuss these issues with their children; Most parents remain silent and decide not to say a word about these issues. Many parents believe that these things should be taught by teachers in academic institutions, but that does not happen that way, it is very rare for the school to play in depth topics of this type; although almost all name them, but in a superficial and insufficient way. It is true that school institutions should deepen in these points, but that is not enough reason for parents to be exempt from this task, which directly concerns them.
It is for this reason that young people learn what little they know on the street; his friends become his counselors and anyone becomes a great teacher for them. Although this is a painful reality, we must accept it in order to work on it and overcome it.
Every person must acquire a basic knowledge to be able to make the family that he fuses or establishes in the future, or the one he has already formed, is really a family, in the strict sense of the word. This acquisition of knowledge, in almost all cases, is very deficient; that is, we can observe a great ignorance regarding these in the common denominator of the inhabitants of our current society.
That is why as a parent we must become aware and address these issues at the right time, because in this way they help the children to become aware of the great responsibility that is acquired when forming a family, in this way the new families will form with good pillars and decrease the number of divorces that we are experiencing today, in a large number of young marriages. Remember that there is no manual to form the family or the home, but when there is value formation and especially communication, the results are quite favorable. Do not be afraid to talk to your child, he really needs your word on time, and a timely conversation can prevent your child from learning to stumble.
