In this life you come only once, there is no need for suffering yourself too much, enjoy life!
There is no reincarnation after you are dead, once gone, you are gone! Enjoy every moment you are privilege to, don't postpone anything because tommorow is never promised.
No one like to suffer, neither do our creator wants us to suffer also, so try your best to work towards acheiving the good life have to offer.
Thank you.