I have always detested feminism - ever since the 60s when I was supposed to go along with it under the banner of equality.
I come from a family of very strong matriarchs who never considered equality was an issue. They were superior & acknowledged as such by their adoring menfolk. They were the heads of their families & their advice was golden. I guess that sort of protected me from any notion of femininity giving way to feminism. Thank goodness for that!