Perfectionism is a life view of someone who glorifies perfection according to his version. It turns out that not only beauty is relative but also perfection. In one case, for example, according to Dilan, the benchmark "perfect" pair is the one like Milea, a woman who is beautiful and fun. Whereas in my opinion the perfect partner is someone who is understanding and able to provide a sense of comfort. So is there a measure of absolute perfection here? NO!
Some perfectionists tend not to realize that the standard of perfection is not the same as the perfect criteria according to others. So for example there are two people who are both perfectionists working on the same thing in one project, then there will always be gaps and errors contained in the work they have worked on. Both in the eyes of the perfectionist and in the eyes of others. So, whatever effort you want to make, it will always be "perfect" if you look at it from the perspective of others. And because of this, the statement "There is no perfect thing in this world" because essential perfection does not exist, because the owner of perfection is only the perfect God.
Perfectionists are allowed, but they have to be positioned too. Don't let ourselves be too perfectionistic, we make it difficult for ourselves. For example, you are looking for a super perfect partner as in your imagination, you set a criterion that is too high to forget that you actually have many flaws that must be addressed. So you always reject people who give their hearts to you. Don't be like that, guys! Be realistic, please! You will only hurt yourself and others when you glorify your perfectionism.
Be a more flexible person because you live your life not only to fulfill the obsession of perfection but by mingling and matching it with the principles of others. Imposing your own standard of perfection for others will only hurt others and even give up on you.
