The Happiness of Children
Having a harmonious family must be the dream of everyone. The reason, only in the family harmony only positive things can happen. Similarly with the life of a child, a child raised by a harmonious family will generally grow into extraordinary individuals.
A child raised in a harmonious family will feel the affection of both parents in full, this is what underlies the child to always give thanks because he is aware out there many unlucky children like him.
The majority of children learn by way of initiation or modeling. When both parents live in harmony, then by itself the child will learn the meaning of friendship. In social life any child will not experience significant difficulties, because what he learned in that house also that he will apply.
With the support of both loving parents the child will be able to develop self-esteem, so he will not be too worried about facing his future. Not only that, through the example of the piety of their parents will also learn more closer to God, so that spiritual life is maintained.
Children who are raised with a harmonious atmosphere will generally grow by having better intellectual, emotional and spiritual intelligence. The intelligences will ultimately enable the child to compete both in school and in informal activities.
Parental Responsibility
Parents' responsibilities for children do not just keep and care for their children from childhood to adulthood. But more than that, how can parents make their children the intelligent child of world affairs and the hereafter? How to make them godly and salacious children? Let's look at things that fall into the parent's responsibility for the child.
Parents have an obligation to care for their children. Caring here has many meanings, not just keeping up. Parents have a responsibility to raise their children in a good way, ie in the way that the Messenger of Allah taught as the best example. Parents have an obligation to meet the needs of their children according to their abilities. Giving them food, clothing, education, and other needs. The responsibility of parents to this child is not easy. Many parents have to struggle and work hard to meet the needs of their families and children, such as trying to feed and clothing, so that their children can grow properly and well.
The parents' responsibility for the next child is to educate the child. Educate to be intelligent in the world and the hereafter. Make their children tough with science in order to be able to respond to the affairs of the world and the hereafter wisely. The responsibility to educate the child at a glance does sound easy, but the fact is not. Abdullah bin Umar r.a. say as follows.
To guide the family and children to the straight path, the path that is in accordance with the teachings of Islam, is one of the responsibilities of parents to children who should be considered. In today's times, parents often focus only on providing enough income for their children. In fact, the responsibility of parents to their children is not just that.
Parents are obliged to teach the religion according to the Qur'an and sunnah to their children. Guiding them to always keep God's command and stay away from any restrictions. Parents are required to keep their families from the fires of hell as the verses in At-Tahrim's letter above. Teach them about Tawheed, creed, Qur'an, and teachings of Islam patiently and affectionately in their hands will be born generations of Islamic fighters.
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