I'm not a man so I do not know, what other men say you are ugly, how do men feel? But to a girl, the word "ugly" is like a slap. Especially the words are said in a vicious way from strangers.
Familiar friends, family members can say: "Today you look so ugly!", Sometimes just a joke, or no deep thought. Strangers naturally say, "You are ugly, you know," or "I'm not nice, but I know how ugly you are." Then ask what else is on the face?
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Yesterday, when my friend posted a picture, dozens of you make sure you are very straight forward, comments like the above.
And then: "This makeup looked twenty-something years old, bad horror." "It's not fault of person other, it's just you're bad."
The beauty of each person different, actually I saw yesterday you make up for yourself have done very well. She is beautiful makeup, and I like. My friends also like. Maybe some people look unfamiliar, it is not beautiful ... But not enough beautiful enough to those who do not know you as well as those who do not have the ability to say heavy words on facebook.
Give yourself the right to disparage, the right to judge. While, from a personal aesthetic point of view, they are certain they are beautiful.
You can see a person who is not beautiful according to your standards. But insulting, or targeting other people's faults to nibble is cruel, is evil.
There are some people in the world who take the fun out of others. This joy is built on jealousy, greed and selfishness. Is meaningless fun. It is fun to turn into a knife to hurt others.
I can not stop the outsiders from disparaging me. But I can not take those vicious words, and have the right to express discomfort with it.
If you can not change people, change yourself.
Change not because you have done wrong or do right. Change is simply by not being able to stay like this.
Severe sadness, carrying too much buckling shoulder burden.
Joy is light as clouds, come and go fly so fast?
Well then enough, do not complain anymore.
Act who makes that person bear, enjoy. Worried that you can not relax, then think about other things.