Have you ever wondered why there are so many divorce these days. It seems like so many of our favourite couples are breaking up, couples no longer stick together as they ought to. As we dry our tears, most of us are left wondering **WHY? **
Many people get married not necessary because they are in love but for the sake of having a fancy wedding or because they are expected to get married.
Exparts agree that cheating is NOT the main reason people get divorced today. Lack of Communication is the root cause; but there are others.
People end up in divorce because they wait too long to find solutions to the problems in their marriage.
Most likely we can't solve our problems alone, especially something as complex as a Marital problems no matter how hard we work.
Humility and a willingness to admit that we need help would go a long way preventing couples from divorce.
Couples thinks that if they are in love, they shouldn't be fighting, forgetting that fighting can be healthy for a relationship.
For a marriage to last, There has to be respect from both spouses. Don't get angry for every small detail, also be there for them in the toughtest times. Marriage is all about compromise, understanding and esteem. When there is respect, There is love: hence, no divorce.
Marriage comes with many changes- some less pleasant than others. No sex or Barely any sex is a Common reason couple end up in divorce.
If the marriage becomes hard and needs a little bit attention and work, it is easier to bend down and do the necessary work to save the marriage.
So many people get married without realizing that thier happiness is their own responsibility.
Most times we marry expecting someone else to make us Happy, rather than CREATING our own happiness