• SELF ESTEEM IS OUR SELF-CONCEPT
  
  Source:debate.org
  There is a story about a farmer who planted pumpkins on his land.For no reason,he put a small pumpkin,hanging by the vine,into the glass jar.
  At the harvest time,he saw that the pumpkin had grown,equivalent only to the shape and the size of the jar.Just as the pumpkin could grow beyond the boundaries restricting it,you cannot perform beyond the boundaries of your self concept,whatever those boundaries maybe.
• SOME ADVANTAGES OF HIGH SELF ESTEEM

there is a direct relationship between people's feelings and their productivity.High self-esteem is evident in respect for one's self,others,property,law, parents and ones country.the reserve is also true.

high self~esteem

1. Building string conviction
2. Creates willingness to accept responsibility.
3. Build optimistic attitudes
4. Leads to better relationships and fulfilling lives
5. Makes a person self motivated and ambitious

LOW SELF ESTEEM

How do we recognize poor self esteem? what are the behavior patterns of a person with that poor self esteem?
the following is a list that is not all inclusive bUT is indicated

• they are generally gossipmongers
• they have a critical nature
• They are concerned about egos
• They are closed minded and self centered
• They constantly make excuses
• They never accept responsibility
• They are jealous in nature
• They are bored and uncomfortable when alone
• they have fatalistic attitude
• Their behavior is senseless and erratic
• They don't have genuine friends because they are not genuine
• They make promises that they can't keep

SO HAVE A GOOD ESTEEM