Generally in Indonesia singles are synonymous with misery and suffering (jomblo ngenes), but who says singles can not be happy? Yet better singles and happy than being in unhappy relationships with others, having a partner also does not automatically make yourself more valueable as a human being than a single person, rather than dizzy thinking about a much better relationship status with life and career You alone, even singles, be a happy quality singles.
Stop thinking about your mate or conflicts problem What makes these singles visible is actually because they like to drag on their sadness, they like to enjoy their own suffering, somehow there is a sense of being a "victim" of life that makes them more depressed and incessantly think about mate.
First no one likes to connect with those who are depressed, desperation is not attractive, you have to divert your concentration elsewhere, one of the best choices certainly falls on your career and quality of life. Instead of a headache thinking about the problem of singles is much better focused and energy is used to learn, work, make business, contribute in social activities and the like. Besides improving the closeness with friends / friends is also a good choice, not infrequently those who are in a relationship / dating lost even the moment and togetherness with good friends, the point is not to waste your life just to think about love.