Why are people getting married?
Many answered because they fell in love!
Can a happy marriage, just by falling in love?
The answer is NO ......
Unless they have agreed to build love.
In 10 minutes people can fall in love,
but to build love, it takes a lifetime.
Why fall in love easy?
Because falling in love is a moment of emotion, so the couple's ugliness is not visible, because it is covered by feelings of the heart.
Why build love is difficult?
For in marriage, nothing can be covered,
because of interaction either directly or indirectly during;
24 hours a day,
7 days a week,
30 days a month
and 365 days a year,
for years with the same people,
all deficiencies and evil must be exposed.
Falling in Love is a condition where two people love each other,
while building love is a condition where two people are in a state of annoyance, but must still receive each other,
where love is no longer a tangible embrace,
but rather a heart that loves, understands conflict,
as well as finding acceptable solutions both,
without being hurt.
Adult love, do not keep uneg-uneg,
although there are sensitive things to say
& problems must be discussed,
so as not to dissolve in aggravation.
Taking into account the feelings of the couple,
is a condition of successful conversation and harmony of the household.
If husband and wife care for one another's feelings,
then surely they will hurt each other,
If allowed to drag on,
they will be hostile to each other
and turning the house into hell.
Is this condition can be fixed?
The answer is CAN ...
Try to remember our original commitment:
"Finding a life partner or a living enemy"
If indeed looking for a life partner,
why now even hostile?
Looking for a life partner, it starts with falling in love,
but after that,
the largest portion is Build Love,
where both parties should be able to Love each other, Respect,
Keep each other's feelings, and willing to sacrifice each other.
"If we had experienced Fallen Love,
then Now is the time for us to build Love under any circumstances in your household ".
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