In this life, it is not easy for a person to define precisely what life has taught us. For the effects that contribute to shaping the human personality, determine its values, and crystallize its trends, usually begin from childhood, in the framework of the process of socialization, which is to transform man from a biological being To a social individual, and this process involves the family in a major role, then the school and then society as a whole, but the work environment, after the person finishes his studies and goes out to the broad world, is also crucial in shaping the personality, in addition to that of course the various experiences, which A person acquires it through his travels abroad and his colleagues, if he comes Him so.
And I was able to accurately define the first lesson in life that I received in the context of my family, particularly at the hands of my father, he was an officer in the armed forces of the generation who believes in the military in its most disciplined traditions, and this was clearly reflected in the family climate, he was taking pride in himself to the greatest extent And his pride, and he was able to teach us the first lesson, which then became my curriculum in life «Depend on yourself, by sharpening your capabilities, and doing what is entrusted to you from the works with the greatest degree of accuracy and accuracy and maintain your dignity, and do not let any person attack it, and say a saying Right, and be ready to pay the price for this satisfaction. ”
And of course from the school I learned that school grades are not at all an indication of brilliance or mental ability or intelligence, it is a deceptive indicator, and this proves that many school excellence failed to achieve, and did not shine socially like colleagues were less successful, this experience determined I have criteria for selection and evaluation after that, and days have proven that a person’s individual evaluation, regardless of his academic record according to objective criteria, the most important of which is creativity, maturity of personality and intellectual openness, and a willingness to learn constantly, is more effective than all formal criteria in assessing humans.
As for the work environment, it is the laboratory of human experiences in a wide range, because we meet in it multiple human patterns in which human beings differ, and the lesson that you have learned is that according to your work, your sincerity and your diligence, you will receive the appreciation that you deserve, even in the long term, all of this on the condition of the drive to achievement. And the desire to diversify experiences, to be constantly informed, and to ensure that the latest opinions and theories are followed through a process of self-education, it should never stop. As for the real experience in the work environment, it is related to the problem of competition between colleagues, who aspire to reach the top seats, and it has become clear to me Colleagues may take dishonest methods In the process of competition, it may include hypocrisy of superiors, or spreading rumors about a certain colleague, or objecting to his work objectively, or lack of mastery in the completion of work, and altruism to you on how.
