Because we weak humans must have experienced the name of failure. It's just that not everyone can respond to failure with a stable emotion and clear mind. Some people in his mind want to just give up, because they can not stand the failure that occurred. Others try to be tough, but sometimes blame themselves or others.
And if we just want to calm down for a moment, failure can be like a teacher who reminds your shortcomings. But surely failure is the best lesson. So when you are hit by a failure, never give up immediately. But ask a few like this.
1. Sure, if it's the right time to finish all your efforts just because you miss it all?
Surrender means ending the struggle. But are you sure that now is the right time to put an end to what has been overturned and struggled for? Though this is just a failure early stage.
What you need to remember god is not an account to test his servant under the ability of his servant.
2. Do you not love all the energy, time, and mind that has been devoted all this time?
So far been traversed but want to retreat? Just think about the energy, thoughts and time that you have sacrificed to this point. As already mentioned, this failure is not the end? But the process to a lot of good, one of them ya forge your mental to be steel. Not just give up, because feel this failure is the result that can not be contested.
3. Approximately your efforts have been maximal yet? How could it fail?
Failure happens, of course, because of the consequences. Try to contemplate your efforts at a time ago? Are you sure you have totality in your effort? If not, then you should never give up.
4. Do you think all this happened because you yourself forgot to involve God in every effort?
Because of the failure experienced by humans, there must be an intervention of God in it. It may fail you this time, because you rarely communicate with god. Maybe God is trying with your patience. He wants to know how far your efforts are in learning patience.
5. If you end now, ready to start something new or from scratch again?
Failure and surrender make you have to be ready with a fresh start. But is it ready yet you to start all over again from scratch? Starting from scratch also means you need a much heavier capital. Persistence, intentions and plans for the future must be doubled from before, so that no more the same failure later.
6. Approximately there will be a disappointed not yes, if you address this failure by surrender or surrender?
You and your life can not be separated from others. There are parents, family to friends who may be affected by your despair. Although not directly said, secretly they could be disappointed with your decision to surrender when just once failed. Because they certainly hold great trust and hope to you.
7. If you finally give up now, are you sure there will be a chance for you to rise again?
If you choose to surrender, is there any guarantee that you will eventually rise from this failure? It could be that you even slumped and stuck in the comfort zone until you did not want to try again.