Every person, satisfying him, really wants to be seen by others. Therefore, prior appreciation of the people we will help, make him the best and the best for us.
By doing this, guaranteed, we will immediately get the attention of people who want us to ask for help, and they will be directly related to us. If someone else believes and relates to us, he will be happy to say what we will say next (even when we trouble him by asking for help sure!)
This is written in the legendary book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" from Dale Carnegie. According to Carnegie, everyone basically likes to be asked for help. Because if asked for help, can we do something more to help others? ?
Like the first example, he immediately "grabbed" my attention by appreciating that I had been an Achieving Student on campus first. In the second example, he thanked me for the writing I sent to his email, and said that I "gave without order".
Always, and always others who are taller. Before before please help prove.