It's Important For Parents To Understand Children's Happiness and Pleasure

In family life (household), togetherness is one of the main and most important things. Unfortunately, sometimes the busyness factor makes them (family members) rarely gather together, both parents and children. Sometimes parents also forget that they have been be children, they make rules in their homes without care their children's pleasures.

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Should be they (parents) imagine themselves when they were children, and how they respond to the rules that they will apply to their children.

In this case, parents should adjust themselves to their child's pleasure when they gather together. For example, letting their children watch TV according to the wishes of their child under parental control. On the sidelines of togetherness, do further interaction to strengthen the relationship between each other (between children and parents).

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So, therefore, invite children to talk about what they watch, how children feel after watching the film, and why they feel that way. This is the right moment for parents to instill and teach positive values to their children.

When they (children) grow up, try negotiating where parents and children can feel pleasure individually or in groups. Occasionally do activities or events that make all family members feel happy. For example, this week do activities that make children happy, and next week do activities that make parents happy. Do so in turn.

Here, parents can also teach about sacrifice, how individuals follow the wishes of other individuals for a moment of togetherness that is more intimate with each other. So by itself, fellow family members respect each other.

So togetherness with family members is important in order to be able to adjust to what is loved by the family members. It is very important for parents to pay attention and to care to at the fun of their children.