It was not easy to be a woman, she was pregnant for 9 months and after that she risked her life to give birth to her child. Then he must breastfeed and care for his child until he grows up. How heavy a woman's job starts from she contains to care for children.
Sometimes men as husbands do arbitrarily to their wives. If you know being a woman is not easy and small. There are many tasks that should be done by the husband, but the wife sincerely does it, such as breastfeeding and caring for children.
Actually, the wife, if she objected to breastfeeding a child, the husband must forgive his wife to breastfeed her child. In the sense that wives may set milk rates for children. But the woman is noble, she sincerely suckles her child without questioning her husband's wages. Therefore, the husband should pay attention and do things that make the wife happy and happy.
It must be admitted that raising children is not a small and easy matter. Sometimes this feels difficult where women (wives / mothers) often feel tired and tired. This then has the potential to make women unhappy in caring for their beloved baby.
However, believing that everything has a solution and its solution includes this subject (parenting). Specifically, there are a number of tips related to this that must be considered so that women whose characteristics are the mother of the baby and the wife of the husband to feel happy in caring for the baby.
1)Look at to wife's mental and psychological conditions
It is undeniable that happiness grows from the heart and mind of a person without exception of the wife (the mother who care for the child). This is what ultimately prompted me to suggest that the wife must pay attention to her mental and psychological conditions first. In a sense, try to look at the inner state of the wife. Make sure everything leads to positive, refreshing and enjoyable things.
2) Encourage self to welcome the morning with enthusiasm
Are you (wives) aware? How you will live your day is very much determined by how you welcome the morning. Indeed, as an ordinary human being, waking up in the morning sometimes still presents a tiring feel and is lazy to leave the bed.
Actually the key to happiness is in the morning when you wake up, so in Islam it is taught after waking up from sleep that it is recommended to read prayer, the core and purpose of the prayer is how we are grateful for the blessings of God that we get from morning to night, from night to morning again . So when we wake up in the morning, the first sentence we say is "Thank God". This sentence is to express gratitude for the blessings of given by God to us. When thankful for God's favors, then we feel that all the burdens that exist before we sleep are gone. Someone will look and feel happy when they don't get the burden and problems in their lives.
Especially if you remember the tasks and responsibilities in the future. However, the wife (mother) should train herself to immediately give thanks for the new day and force herself to escape from the bed so that life becomes more vibrant and happy.
3) Positive words as your motivator
A wife (mother), in carrying out daily activities that include various tasks and responsibilities, including caring for children, wife (mother) of course will feel tired. However, once again, you as a mother, should ensure that your emotions and feelings remain focused on positive things because this can act as the best solution that makes the body feel light. Well, the way is very simple, you can motivate yourself with positive words like, "mom can do it", "Everything will end well".
4) Take time to do pleasure
In caring for a child, you as a wife and mother of your children, it is important to pay attention to yourself. Not just relying on personal abilities. Instead, you also have to make sure that you are in a positive and constructive community. Your presence in the community is one of the best forms of that. Because, the environment in which you hang out will determine your mindset and character, without exception in raising children.
You should ensure that you get along with neighbors and other friends who support and give positive input to your activities in terms of raising children.
Now, if you already know how to pay attention to yourself in caring for children, let's do it now as a form of self-love.
Have a good day
